Taaree Zameen Par

 Taaree Zameen Par

childhood pretty much makes up our personality, the way we grow up, the way we behave with others, the way we want to be treated and almost everything within us. If you ever ask me about my childhood, the main thing that'll come to my mind without any go would probably be how careless i was, the messy kid, eating food 24x7, playing all day, wearing pink colored outfits, dancing with my friends, watching weird cartoons, sleeping at any given time. honestly, what not? i know there's no "perfect life" but for me, yes, that was more than perfect. simple and peaceful. one of the things that really made me so tranquil has to be the gadget free world. i barely used a mobile phone, and that was precious. life without gadgets can be precious too. my whole entire world revolved around my school, friends and family, that was pretty much my whole routine. if i could go back to those days, i really would, without a second thought.

why is childhood so important?

i read a quote the other day, and it goes like this " when you're born in a burning house, you think the whole world is on fire, but it's not." it took me quite a while to understand what that really meant. but it was this simple, when you are bought up in an environment where you were never enough, never capable of things, never the considerate, you start to feel like the whole world outside is so much more than you're house, but in reality it's your mind. looking at things from the vision of the burning house. sometimes you just have to escape that mentality of your own self, worrying so much, rethinking each and every decision you've ever made, cause honestly there's more to this world than fire, look up to daisy sunsets, pray for rain and you'll see all of it happening, just before your own eyes.

that's the reason i emphasis on childhood so much, a kid who has not yet achieved mental growth should never be put in situations where they start to doubt themselves, indeed is reassurance so so important. when a child is still learning about emotions and what they are, how they can be expressed, it is essential to make sure they know how to understand them right? for example, if the parent expresses his anger on the child by beating him, the child will infer "physical abuse" as equivalent to an emotion that is "anger", and i believe that is how many serial killers and psychopaths are what they are today. 

a kid's mental well being is equally important too, but we all know indian societies, third grade mai fail hogaya hai to duffer, idiot, mountains ko draw karna nahi aata hai to unstable, boards mai marks nahi laya hai to useless, neet aur jee ka tayyari nahi kar raha hai to waste of time, anxiety hai toh disease, depression mai hai toh bimaari, "everything's your fault!". making him or her question every bit of their existence, "was i ever good enough?", honestly only your own self can answer this question. cause you're the one who truly knows how much youve tried, how much youve pushed yourself on those days when you could'nt even wake up, and if you think you still aren't good enough, try to make sure that you are, and honestly if you have given your goals your everything, you are good enough. more than enough. 

ive heard a lot of people tell " i would never put my kid through what i was put in " honestly, don't put yourself into the fire either. you know you're good enough. you know you are your everything, i believe in you, let go of the burning house mate. 

So remember, if you were born in a burning home, it doesn’t mean the whole universe is on fire. There are gardens of flowers beyond the ashes, laughter echoing through open windows, and hearts emitting a warmth that can melt even the most stubborn scars. Step outside, breathe deep, and discover the light that awaits you just beyond the flames.

Keep Thriving. 

i hope you liked what you read ;)