is loving someone the same as changing yourself?
"to be loved is to be understood" one of the quotes that pop up in pinterest the minute you search for "quotes about love". the question is, how much of being understood is to be loved? is it sufficient if they know my favourite drink? or is it necessary for them to know every detail about me? what if they know you well enough to not wake you up on your cranky days, to ensure there's two more pieces of your favourite brownies left in the microwave, to know what you would order on days where your happy and days you are barely yourself, but, they don't know how to show you their efforts, bring those flowers you once mentioned in a conversation and not listen to your type of artists. what if? that brings us to our main question, is loving someone the same as changing yourself? to be fair and honest, i don't think that loving someone is equivalent to changing yourself, unless they want you to change yourself completely. because, when one asks you to change...